U.B.S. – I can’t tell you how many women I meet with an Ugly Belief System. Yes, I once suffered from this but self limiting beliefs will sabotage you every time. Let go of doubt, fear & worry. If you start to believe in yourself you can move through life with ease & grace. If you believe you can turn those stumbling blocks into stepping stones, you can!
It seems they want to reinvent the wheel. They’re looking for new ways of doing things and this creates a sometimes frenetic, frantic approach to getting clients. I believe this ties into the “Bright Shiny object syndrome” we talked about last week, always looking for something new to do, something exciting, while leaving behind the proven stuff.
symptoms of shiny obejct syndrome The way to develop our will is through the practice of concentration. To be able to hold one thought or picture on the screen of your mind to the exclusion of all the other competing thoughts or pictures takes a very strong and developed will. We have a lot of chatter going on in our minds and in order to “tame the monkey mind” we need to have some regular practice of quieting the mind.
Have a follow up system in place (only 10 messages) and make many more sales, over a much longer time. Handle your list correctly, send all traffic to your squeeze pages, and you will build a real online business. Once you have it set, you can step away. Your follow up system will do the work for you.
how to cure shiny object syndrome Not that I’ve orchestrated the perfect move-not by far, but it’s because it hasn’t been perfect, that I’ve been able to look at the similarities between my move and my business.
I’m not advocating putting any old rubbish out there, I’m just saying don’t wait for everything to be perfect before you let the world see your work. Chances are that it will be much better than you think.
Deeper down they hoped that THIS training will somehow magically change their life FOR them. Hopefully if I just READ the first few chapters of this new book, I will feel better and somehow my life will change. Sounds ridiculous, but we all do it and marketers have become excellent at appealing to our naive ego.